The 2 posts before this had a WHOLE LOT of stuff on them but I had to hide it because it thoroughly pissed off "the man" and the "OW (Other Woman), Point 5 chick" because I exposed their sin, stood up for my family and my marriage. The resulting onslaught just wasn't worth it.
He said that I "demeaned them on my blog" and that "I hurt people" by doing that but frankly, they DEMEANED THEMSELVES by committing adultery and perpetuating the demise of a family. Not much worse I can do to demean them. And don't even get me started on people being hurt.... I live each day with the pain that my husband is carrying on with some dork. My children live every day with the absence of their father, whom they know is not just away at school, they know he left us before that and that he isn't coming back. They get confused when he is here with us because he is really WITH us...normal family...loving their Momma...all having fun together doing normal family stuff... So don't even talk to me about HER feelings. Puh-lease! She KNEW he was married and had children. She CHOSE to alienate his affections from us. Let the chips fall where they may. She has no rights in this situation, not moral, not legal (as an OW). She's taking someone else's crumbs instead of finding her own man. Oh wait, maybe she can't find anyone. I've seen her pictures and let me tell ya, I was really upset when I first found out about her but had to laugh when I saw she was ugly. Yeah, I know, that was catty of me. :-) She had the nerve to tell me that I don't know suffering and that basically I had it easy compared to the life she had before. Oh yeah, she went there. Anyone wanna hold my earrings for me? Granted, what she told me about her life was horrible but don't tell me I don't know suffering. She doesn't know me like that. She just knows what he tells her. Plus, she wrote that I was "punishing him for [my] actions and no way could [I] truly love him". Um, yes, she "truly loves him" after a whopping 2 months. And I'm not really sure what actions of mine she's talking about. His own sin punishes him.
And once again, God's Word, "be sure your sin will find you out" and "what is whispered in a closet will be shouted from the rooftops". Darkness hates the light, that's for sure. You mess with a marriage or family, you're taking on the Almighty. And it definitely won't go well for you. Oh well, not my problem anymore.
Anyway, in the best interest of my sanity, I'm moving on and they can wallow in their sludge and let God deal with them. I have a family to take care of. Thank you all for praying and for telling me the hard truth when I needed to hear it. I certainly have areas to work on in my own life. I'm not going to lie about that. On the plus side, my counselor (who is a psychotherapist) said that I am most definitely NOT bipolar (as my husband likes to throw at me) OR crazy. :-) There you have it, straight from an expert. :-)
4 comments:
You are SO in the right on this one!
I have an aunt that was devastated by my uncle's promiscuity. They divorced, he married his concubine.
Uncle and his Mrs. Mistress are separated now. She came home after a 4-day drinking fest, threw a punch at him, he pushed her away, she pressed charges. At the last family gathering he was singing my aunt's praises and confessing that he made a huge mistake.
My aunt smirked, said "Yeah you did," and that's that. When the joke was thrown her way that he was wanting to get back with her, my aunt, who NEVER uses any language even resembling profanity, said "HELL no!" :)
Be strong - You will get your opportunity to gloat. What goes around, comes around!
Words are really inadequate.
God bless...you and yours...you are in my prayers during this time.
There's so much to say. . .but more than anything, I want to give you a hug.
. . .that, and drink a big ol' glass of wine with you! :)
Honey, you're in love with a figment of your imagination, because that man is ass times two. God can do so much better for you.
I have to admit, there were a couple of times today when I was busy doing stuff and thought of what he's doing to you, and I just got pissed all over again. I'm so proud of you for not caving in. I know it hurts to lose what you thought you had. Hang in there, there are better things ahead!
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